corsaircorp Posted June 21, 2018 Share Posted June 21, 2018 Hello Dear tentacled one ! Really good job on these vents ! Pearlescent….🤔🤔 Disco ball 🤔 Mmmmhhh I've got some ideas… Wanna know ?? That can be tentative….. Hope that you will have all these problem fixed soon ! If there have been a cure for Challenging behaviour, I would buy it massively !! Since I've some candidates here around me... Have a nice modelling time Dear Martian ! Sincerely. CC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 21, 2018 Author Share Posted June 21, 2018 Thanks CC. If I had a cure for challenging behaviour, I would be the richest alien in the universe and everyone would be making their way to the door of my Haunebu.  Martian 👽 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdrianMF Posted June 21, 2018 Share Posted June 21, 2018 5 hours ago, Martian Hale said: If I had a cure for challenging behaviour, Let me know the price of a family-sized pack... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 21, 2018 Author Share Posted June 21, 2018 1 hour ago, AdrianMF said: Let me know the price of a family-sized pack... Not to worry Adrian, in the unlikely event that I find a cure, well a legal one that is, I shall be going straight into mass production and the denizens of these august forums will be the first to know about it!  Pessimistic of Mars 👽 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norman Posted June 21, 2018 Share Posted June 21, 2018 I have never encountered a cure for 'challenging behaviour' especially in the elderly and infirm it seems to go with the territory!  Very best of luck with it all, I will say this though, they may not know it but they are extremely fortunate to have someone who cares and tries so hard to make things easier for them  Cheers  Love the vents etc by the way 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perdu Posted June 21, 2018 Share Posted June 21, 2018 There is no jocular way to define the behaviour of challenging people My dad had spent years downstairs in their council house with breathing difficulties and assorted other ills He was looked after by my mom who was getting worn down and although they 'kept it together' she was having it bad  He didnt make any big thing about it but when the doc suggested him going into a respite care home for a few days to let mom recuperate he said yes let's do that  Off they went to our local place of care with his bag packed for a few days They took him to his little room and he and mom said this is nice And he promptly passed away We think he knew the deal and simply didnt want to pass on at mom's home, we the children would have cherished more time to chat  Challenging can be a very varied thing, what you are doing Martian is a fine, no, a wonderful thing to do I wish you all the very best of the situation Keep talking to dad, I miss mine all the time 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 21, 2018 Author Share Posted June 21, 2018 Thanks Norman. Sadly the behaviour has nothing to do with age or infirmity and is trying my brother's and my patience to breaking point. It would have been the same thirty years ago but then we had Mum to reign him in. My wife has been totally falsely accused of being a thief and banned from his house for evermore and I am still expected to go and help him. He has behaved so badly that my brother's partner refuses to visit him any more and my friends won't visit either. He say that Gill doesn't look after me properly despite the fact that her exemplary care has helped keep me alive at times over the last 25 years. Clearly I know nothing! He seems to have it in for Gill because she is not the sort of wife he would have chosen for me. The funny thing is that I didn't choose Gill for him, I chose her for me! Outrageously selfish behaviour on my part!  He wants to stay in his own home which is perfectly reasonable but will not implement the recommendations of his occupational therapists. He is very comfortably off but refuses point blank to spend a penny more than the £57 a week benefit he gets on the extra care he needs to be safe at home. We get him to agree to measures to make life easier and safer for him but as soon as our backs are turned he goes back on what has been arranged. If one does 1000 things for him and get 999 right, he will ignore that and complain like hell about the one that has gone wrong, no matter how trivial. The last time he spoke to Gill he was ranting on about things I had done wrong when I was less than five years old!  Sorry Guys but all this has been badly affecting my health and bottling it up is aggravating the situation. Normally I am an extremely loyal person but I no longer see why I should suffer by keeping quiet under the current circumstances.  So thanks Norman, you have actually done me a favour by pushing me past the point where I have to open up for my own sanity. I also don't have to make out to you Guys that all is well when it isn't, you all deserve better than that.  I have a weeks holiday from Saturday when my phone will stay resolutely turned off. I shall check in with my brother most evenings but come hell or highwater, I am going to have a hassle free week. I don't know whether it is practical to take this build with me given the fact that I am very soon going to have to get the airbrush out. But I shall certainly take some plastic with me to have play around with.  There, that feels a bit better.  Martian 👽 9 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 21, 2018 Author Share Posted June 21, 2018 32 minutes ago, perdu said: There is no jocular way to define the behaviour of challenging people My dad had spent years downstairs in their council house with breathing difficulties and assorted other ills He was looked after by my mom who was getting worn down and although they 'kept it together' she was having it bad  He didnt make any big thing about it but when the doc suggested him going into a respite care home for a few days to let mom recuperate he said yes let's do that  Off they went to our local place of care with his bag packed for a few days They took him to his little room and he and mom said this is nice And he promptly passed away We think he knew the deal and simply didnt want to pass on at mom's home, we the children would have cherished more time to chat  Challenging can be a very varied thing, what you are doing Martian is a fine, no, a wonderful thing to do I wish you all the very best of the situation Keep talking to dad, I miss mine all the time Thanks Bill, clearly our posts crossed but as you can see, I have decided to get it all off my chest.  Martian 👽 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perdu Posted June 21, 2018 Share Posted June 21, 2018 I would not compare the situations Martian, in your shoes, even allowing for the gravity compensation, I'd have no hesitation doing what you are planning I wish you and Gill well in this debilitating situation, my dad only left us sad not angry  It just isn't ever fair mate, have a damned good weekend 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norman Posted June 21, 2018 Share Posted June 21, 2018  Hi Martian  Glad I got you to get that off your chest it wasn't my intention but hey if things work in my life I reckon its a bonus! so there you go  You are doing beyond exceptional in my opinion, that may be bad grammar but its the message that counts correct? I wish I was closer I'd buy you a few pints to ease ya pain!  Keep looking after yourself and your better half and do remember you must stay positive you have an Albatross in the Hanger the Universe is waiting to see rolled out! mmmmmmmmmm  All the best  Norm 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 21, 2018 Author Share Posted June 21, 2018 4 minutes ago, Norman said:  Hi Martian  Glad I got you to get that off your chest it wasn't my intention but hey if things work in my life I reckon its a bonus! so there you go  You are doing beyond exceptional in my opinion, that may be bad grammar but its the message that counts correct? I wish I was closer I'd buy you a few pints to ease ya pain!  Keep looking after yourself and your better half and do remember you must stay positive you have an Albatross in the Hanger the Universe is waiting to see rolled out! mmmmmmmmmm  All the best  Norm Thanks Norman. Fortunately, at least the beer situation is under control and Mrs Martian has found us a cottage about 100 yards from a real ale pub for next week.  Martian 👽 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CedB Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Good to vent from time to time Martian and good to know you have a bunch of mates here prepared to listen and give support.  Relatives can be frustrating I know and I hope the imminent break gives you a chance to recharge the batteries. Have a good one  2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 3 minutes ago, CedB said: Good to vent from time to time Martian and good to know you have a bunch of mates here prepared to listen and give support.  Relatives can be frustrating I know and I hope the imminent break gives you a chance to recharge the batteries. Have a good one  Thanks Ced, things haven't been good for a while but the last six months have been hell. It is often said that friends are the family we choose for ourselves and the older I get, the more I find this to be true.  Martian 👽 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
longshanks Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Hi Martian I feel your pain and frustration, going through a mild dose (in comparison) of your problems.  If it helps in anyway to have a rant on your blog about your problems fill your boots, as we say on earth. After all you give us it's the least we can do is to listen.  Enjoy your time away, Real Ale and modelling  I think will be perfect therapy but DO NOT  attempt both at the same time. The thought of alcohol, CA and scalpels  Kev   1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amblypygid Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 6 hours ago, Martian Hale said: It is often said that friends are the family we choose for ourselves and the older I get, the more I find this to be true. Â Hear, hear. Sounds like you & Mrs Martian could well do with a break. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 1 hour ago, longshanks said: Hi Martian I feel your pain and frustration, going through a mild dose (in comparison) of your problems.  If it helps in anyway to have a rant on your blog about your problems fill your boots, as we say on earth. After all you give us it's the least we can do is to listen.  Enjoy your time away, Real Ale and modelling  I think will be perfect therapy but DO NOT  attempt both at the same time. The thought of alcohol, CA and scalpels  Kev   Thanks Kev, things do seem a bit better this morning now that I don't have to make out that everything is OK. As to real ale and modelling, I have been getting away with it for years and have the scars to prove it, so there! 1 hour ago, amblypygid said:  Hear, hear. Sounds like you & Mrs Martian could well do with a break. Thanks Chris, it is well over due. We haven't had a break since last September and all the hassle has left us completely wrecked, which we intend to resolve by getting completely wrecked in an entirely different fashion.  Martian 👽 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheBaron Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Vent away to your heart's content old fruit. It's your thread and we likes you! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 9 minutes ago, TheBaron said: Vent away to your heart's content old fruit. It's your thread and we likes you! Thank you your Baronesship, you are a real sweetie.  Back on the model front, a serendipitous logging into the Big H revealed that a masking set has been released by Avalon Models. I discovered this as I was on the point of starting work on masking the transparencies on the kit. That part of the build is now on hold pending the arrival of the said masking set on my door mat. I think I will do some work on the radio operator's desk today so I can get the model ready to have some paint lobbed at it.  Martian 👽 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hamden Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018  Sorry to hear of your troubles I have been there. Take care of yourself and Mrs Martian and have a good break   Roger 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMC Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Commiserations, Martian.  Have a pleasant break, beer, a good book and the company of your lovely lady wife should do it.  Cheers  Dennis 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 3 hours ago, Hamden said:  Sorry to hear of your troubles I have been there. Take care of yourself and Mrs Martian and have a good break   Roger Thanks Roger, I know I'm not the first person to go through something like this and knowing that does help a bit. 1 hour ago, DMC said: Commiserations, Martian.  Have a pleasant break, beer, a good book and the company of your lovely lady wife should do it.  Cheers  Dennis Thanks Dennis. We are going to enjoy the break no matter what.  Martian 👽 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huvut76g7gbbui7 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 10 minutes ago, Martian Hale said: We are going to enjoy the break no matter what. That's the spirit! Are you teleporting,using the stargate or just going in the 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 20 minutes ago, Scimitar said: That's the spirit! Are you teleporting,using the stargate or just going in the We shall be going in Sarah-Jane as the weather seems set fair for the week and she can get her top off. for those not in the know, this is Sarah-Jane although she now has a new top and flashy new Minilite wheels.   Martian 👽 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teuchter Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Not much room for an airliner or will you have a drone to carry it behind you? Hope you enjoy the sunshine and real ale and relaxation. Looking forward to the resumption of this great build. Don 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martian Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 2 hours ago, Teuchter said: Not much room for an airliner or will you have a drone to carry it behind you? Hope you enjoy the sunshine and real ale and relaxation. Looking forward to the resumption of this great build. Don Its not so much the size of the model, the TR7 has a boot the size of a Tardis, but having to pack all my airbrushing equipment due to the fact that painting the interior will be necessary in the very near future. I will have a scratch around this evening to see what I can take with me.  Martian 👽 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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